As the year draws to a close and 2026 is about to begin, many of us find ourselves standing at a familiar crossroads: reflecting on what has happened to us, and beginning to envision what we want to come next. For individuals navigating mental health challenges, this season of transition presents a meaningful opportunity to approach change with compassion instead of expectation, regret, self-hate, and negativity.
The new year doesn’t have to be a grand reinvention of self, but rather, a gentle turning of the page. We can take a moment to pause, breathe, and consider what we truly need, not what we think we want. Instead of centering on resolutions that suggest you must become someone different, we can focus on ways to support who you already are. What could be even more important is also focusing on our connections, support systems, and interpersonal health. Growth does not require discarding the person you’ve been or world you have created thus far. Instead, it encourages reflecting on what parts of yourself you’d like to nurture, what patterns you’d like to soften, and what supports you need to move forward.
The end of the year can be a time to recognize progress—large or small—in coping skills, emotional insight, relationship boundaries, or moments you managed to keep going even when it was hard. Affirming these strengths can be as important as setting future goals.
Harsh self-evaluation often leads to feelings of defeat rather than motivation.
Here are some questions that encourage curiosity, compassion, and clarity:
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What moments this year made me feel grounded, connected, or proud?
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What behaviors or patterns drained my energy or pulled me away from my values? (And what are my values!)
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What support—internal or external—helped me through difficult times?
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What did I learn about myself, my needs, or my boundaries?
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What is one difficult thing I did do this year that I didn’t think I could do?
Setting Intentions Instead of Resolutions
Resolutions tend to focus on achievement. Intentions focus on direction, values, and emotional experience. Examples of compassionate intentions include:
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“I will prioritize rest without guilt.”
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“I will practice being kinder to myself when I’m struggling.”
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“I will work on communicating my needs openly.”
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“I will make space for joy where I can find it.”
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“I will explore ways to support my mental health consistently, not perfectly.”
Approaching the new year mindfully means preparing the emotional, relational, and practical supports that allow you to feel safe and grounded. Consider the following:
1. Strengthening Social Connection
Human connection plays a crucial role in psychological resilience. Identify relationships that nurture you, bring authenticity, and allow mutual support. This may mean investing in a few meaningful connections rather than trying to maintain a wide social circle.
It may also include setting boundaries around relationships that feel draining; the new year is a natural time to evaluate what connections help you thrive.
2. Reassessing Your Daily Rhythms
Small routines often make the biggest difference in mental well-being. You might reflect on:
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Sleep habits
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Nutrition patterns
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Movement or physical activity
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Mindfulness or grounding practices
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Digital consumption and AI habits
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Work–life balance
None of these need major restructuring. Tiny shifts—a five-minute morning pause, a weekly walk, or reducing nighttime screen time—can accumulate into meaningful change.
3. Seeking Professional Support Early in the Year
Many people wait until they are overwhelmed before seeking therapy or mental health support. Reaching out proactively can help you start the year more grounded. A therapist can help you set intentions, process emotional experiences, strengthen coping skills, and identify goals aligned with your values.
If therapy is not accessible, peer support groups, community organizations, or online resources can also provide connection and guidance.
Embracing Emotional Flexibility
One of the most empowering skills you can carry into the new year is emotional flexibility—the ability to allow emotions to come and go without becoming overwhelmed or ashamed. This means noticing your feelings, naming them, and responding gently rather than judging them.
The new year may stir up a range of emotions:
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Hope
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Fear
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Excitement
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Uncertainty
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Grief
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Motivation
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Fatigue
All of these are normal. Emotional flexibility acknowledges the complexity of being human and allows you to move through transitions with self-compassion.
Honoring Rest and Recovery
Rest is not a reward—it’s a requirement for mental well-being. As you reset for the year ahead, consider where you need emotional or relational rest:
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Do you need downtime after a difficult year?
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Do you need less pressure and more softness?
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Do you need time to process something unresolved?
Rest can look like sleep, quiet moments, stepping back from obligations, or creating space to simply exist. Honoring rest helps your body and mind integrate experiences and prepare for new ones.
Allowing for Imperfect Beginnings
January 1st is just a day—not a magical cutoff between who you were and who you “should” become. It's a man-made tradition. It is not real. Some even argue that energetically, the winter is not the time for change, but rather, the energy of Spring! Remember this despite the societal norms. Growth doesn’t follow a calendar. In fact, it probably happens every single day on the calendar. You’re allowed to begin again as many times as you need. If the first few weeks of the new year feel messy, uncertain, or emotionally heavy, that doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re human. Approaching the new year with grace means letting go of the idea that meaningful change must be immediate or dramatic.
A Year of Compassionate Possibility
As you step into the new year, consider giving yourself permission to:
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Grow at your own pace
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Ask for the support you need
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Honor your emotional landscape
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Celebrate your resilience
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Stay connected to values that anchor you
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Let go of narratives that create shame or pressure
From EB Psychotherapy --- may this new season bring opportunities for healing, connection, and gentle transformation.